![]() ![]() Other times, Nice Guys try to buy people’s love. This is just one of the reasons why Nice Guys aren’t always nice. Once the cycle is completed, it begins all over again. After the frustration and resentment builds up long enough, it spills out in the form of rage attacks, passive-aggressive behavior, pouting, tantrums, withdrawing, shaming, criticizing, blaming, and physical abuse.Remember, the Nice Guy is the one keeping score, and isn’t totally objective. When he doesn’t get as much in return, he becomes frustrated and resentful.The Nice Guy gives to others hoping to get something in return.It consists of three predictable sequences: ![]() ![]() The Nice Guy often sees themselves as the victim, and giving to get creates a cycle of craziness that turns into what Dr. Nice Guys use a contract that says “I will do this X, so that you will do Y” but this contract is only known to the Nice Guy and they become resentful when the other person does not give back. ![]()
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